My boyfriend told me that he stayed over his baby mother house "playing with his son" until 4am. Ironically that very morning he tagged me in a facebook status saying that he loved me and feeling postive. Let me remind you he never updates his status and I don't think he has ever put he loved me on facebook. I am the one that do most of the posting.
Ok, so when he told me I was livid. He claim that his son went to sleep around 3ish and then he had to wait for a cab and he left her house around 4am. I told him that was beyond disrepectful to me. He actually caught an attitude with me becuase he claim i dont trust him. I'm sorry but there is no getting around being over there that late. Only if it was an emergency I could understand that. But he made the choice to go over there around 11pm and then didn't leave until 4am. Seriously?
Oh and this is long distance so we are in two different states.
Then the status was totally random and once I put two and two togehter I feel like he did that out of guilt or something. Help me out ladies, what should I do and what do you guys think?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:20 PM on Aug. 26, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by virginiamama71 at 9:24 PM on Aug. 26, 2013
Answer by Rosehawk at 9:24 PM on Aug. 26, 2013
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:26 PM on Aug. 26, 2013
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Answer by DJDNY at 9:29 PM on Aug. 26, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 9:42 PM on Aug. 26, 2013
No, you don't. You stated:
Then the status was totally random and once I put two and two togehter I feel like he did that out of guilt or something.
If you feel he did it out of guilt, one could reasonably deduce that you feel that he has something to feel guilty for. THAT is a trust issue. Nothing we say here can change how you feel about your relationship. Something about your post just really seems like you don't believe him. I don't think I'm the only one seeing that from what you have written.
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:42 PM on Aug. 26, 2013