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if a man has ahdd by not taking his meds will that cause him to abuse his wife and children

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limberlost2007

Asked by limberlost2007 at 6:28 PM on Aug. 27, 2013 in Relationships

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  • You mean, If an man as ADHD?
    IMO. No.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:30 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • It could cause him to be short-tempered or easily bothered by little things. I see that w/ my 22 y/o son who refuses to take his meds. He is also unable to get direction in his life or make important decisions. Very frustrating. GL
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:31 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • only if he is an abuser with or without meds
    They don't make you psycho if you go off them,if that's what you're asking
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:33 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • No
    2autisticsmom

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 6:38 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • No. My husband has ADHD and he hasn't taken meds for it in many years. He is not abusive in any way. Ever.
    Lobelia

    Answer by Lobelia at 6:42 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • No
    DJDNY

    Answer by DJDNY at 7:12 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • it could lead him to yell at them in frustration if it leads to more he needs to know that you will not put up with that it will give him a wake up call, he may forget to pay the bills on time and not be able to get his life together and stay organized or focus on what he needs to do for the day, or make realistic plans,and follow through ADHD is highly treatable unmedicated can lead to the signs I just mentioned or more such as your marriage or relationship may suffer.
    n8nnickmom

    Answer by n8nnickmom at 7:15 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • Not in and of itself, no. If he already has abusive tendencies, the increased frustration of going off his ADHD meds could makehim more cranky than usual.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 7:59 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • Only if he's abusive. Having ADHD, medicated or not, does not make someone abusive. He might have a shorter temper, be more easily frustrated, or feeling withdrawals from the meds, but if he becomes abusive, it's got nothing to do with the ADHD.
    wendythewriter

    Answer by wendythewriter at 8:05 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

  • Let's not start making excuses for wife beaters, ok?
    If a guy thinks so little of a woman that he will beat her, no pill will change that.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 8:10 PM on Aug. 27, 2013

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