My earliest recollection was about 5 years old, definitely before turning 6.
Granted, this was with 6, 7, and 8 yr old same-sex cousins, but nonetheless, totally inappropriate. I remember having the discussion every time we had a sleepover as to who would get to be the boy on top and who would get to be the girl on bottom.
I have no idea where it started. I just remember going to long about 2nd grade, thinking it was normal? Maybe 3rd? I did have one girl friend in K-2nd grade I did this with, but her parents were TOTALLY the kind of people to have sex on the couch in front of anyone and everyone who walked in. Nasty.
Is this a common thing for people? Or is this something I might need to consider getting therapy for? I just got to thinking about it, and now, I can't stop mulling it over. I don't know if I should take responsibility and try to apologize, but I honestly don't think I ever initiated or necessarily approved of it, I just went along to get along, and never really thought about whether it was right or wrong.
It's surely done a number on my self-esteem over the years, I always worried I would end up being denied by my family if I turned out to be lesbian over the whole ordeal... I NEVER deviate from what society deems normal for the sake of this coming out.
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