Yesterday my husband said he was worried and then he said is because of the bills that are piling and I said to him that we need to put in place a budget. So today I approach him and I said to him that things have to change and we have to be more responsible in the way that we handle money and that we have to make slight changes and stop spending money in frequent things. I know my heart was in a good place because I'm really trying to help us be more conscious about money and pay off our debt as soon as we can. Instead of him taking it in a good way he got mad and angry and said that I'm putting too many restrictions and that was the last thing that I was saying. I was trying to show him support and also showing him that I wanted to help. Today one of our friends out of town was coming to visit is at the house and I was making dinner so I put to boil some pasta and during that time is that we started to have the fight. I was so angry that I was stirring the pot very hard and I said to myself this is not good so I told him to take care of the pot that I wasn't going to do anything else and that I was going upstairs. When his friend was parking he told me as I'm walking upstairs to not come down because he didn't want me there while his friend was here. I said to him why you're treating me like a piece of furniture or garbage. And that in tired of him treating me like that. He did after a while come twice to tell me to go downstairs but I didn't want to make a show like he calls it because I wanted to cry and I was crying so I decided to stay upstairs. He still with his friend watching a movie but I'm very angry that he's treating me like this and that the only thing that I was doing is helping him and supporting him for him to explote and yell and treat me like garbage. As soon as his friend leaves one or the other he's going to pretend nothing happened and not talk to me or start a fight again. I feel very sad and down. In this case what would you do.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:43 PM on Aug. 28, 2013 in Relationships
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