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Cute story!!!!! :)

Oh my gosh!
So when I was 11 years old, I had the HUGEST CRUSH EVER on this boy that lived in front of me. I liked him so much, that my heart would seriously pound every time I saw him! He was 15 years old at the time, so he even told me himself I was too young for him. He started dating a girl that lived down the street from us, and I cried, I was devastated. LOL! I disliked her so much , and I couldn't wait to grow up... Then I ended up moving.

Anyways... I never ever forgot about him--ever. I always told myself, "I'll try to be with him when I grow up" I been meaning to search for him, but about a year ago I finally did, couldn't find him anywhere!! Then tonight, I thought about him again, so I searched for 1 hour trying to find him, and guess what? I FINALLY FOUND HIM!!! I did some DEEP SEARCHING, that if he messages me back hes even going to think "how the hell did you find me"... Thats going to be awkward and embarrassing to explain especially because he has a very odd last name, but like I said, I did some DEEP searching!!

Its been 10 years since I've saw him...I would be surprised if he actually remembered me, considering he saw me as this little girl who had a crush on him. :(
But he seriously never left my mind, its crazy! He has a wife, I have a boyfriend, but I would just like to let him know that he was my FIRST CRUSH ever and that I never forgot him. LOL!!!! Im so crazy. Haha. I was smiling the whole time going through his pictures, I feel so silly. Hopefully he messages back although hes probably going to see me as this stalker physco, oh man. 

Cute and kind of stalkerish, huh? Haha

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Asked by Mommy2bbyboy at 2:23 AM on Sep. 7, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • Yeah. He is married. Let it go. Pursuing this can only bring heartache.

    Answer by Bmat at 8:10 AM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Not cute but stalkish yes.

    Do not bother him.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 10:41 AM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Not cute at all. Why would you pursue a married man?

    Answer by kmath at 11:22 AM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • You sound like you are still a little girl.

    Leave him alone.

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 12:41 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • I'm states away for him, I haven't seen this man in 10 years.... Would could we possibly peruse? Lol. I just thought it was cute to find my long lost crush, that's all...

    Comment by Mommy2bbyboy (original poster) at 12:59 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Maybe cute to find him (questionable, but definitely not cute to contact him.
    You need to get some help to let this go if you want to have a lasting relationship with anyone.

    Answer by Dardenella at 1:44 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • I've actually decided not to message him.

    Comment by Mommy2bbyboy (original poster) at 2:10 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Good plan. Leave it be. Let your crush be a fond memory of youth.

    Answer by Ballad at 3:11 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

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