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Why this feeling?

Ok, so here's the deal when I lived in Atlanta, GA I found this man I had started liking and I told my best friend who I've known for about all my life and by the time me and him decided to start dating I moved and found someone special. Now we are in love. Now my best friend told me that the man I almost dated ask her out. And she said she wouldn't date him because I liked him. Now she's telling me they're going to break up because it doesn't feel right. So basically the fact they dated I feel some type of way even tho I'm in love with the person I'm with now I don't think I should care but for some reason I do! Can anyone tell m, give me some advice, or tell what should I do ?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:27 PM on Sep. 7, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • No, I can't. I just can't go there.... UGH!!!!!!

    Answer by Crafty26 at 9:33 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • sure you can crafty, just spit it out


    Answer by fiatpax at 9:36 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • I bet your friends in your third grade class can help you out.

    Answer by m-avi at 9:38 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  •  this has been proven to be incorrect


    Answer by fiatpax at 9:41 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • I can't... I'll end up in Siberia... If I let loose here I might not be able to stop myself tonight...

    Answer by Crafty26 at 9:42 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Sounds like ur jealous

    Answer by rachel216 at 9:54 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • So did she date him or didn't she? Your post makes almost no sense.

    Answer by kmath at 10:08 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Sounds like seventh grade stuff to me, sorry. If she wanted to date him, she should have. If she didn't, she shouldn't have used you liking him as an excuse.

    Answer by Ballad at 10:52 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • Both of these people are complicating your life way too much. Simplify it: drop 'em both.

    Answer by gdiamante at 11:43 PM on Sep. 7, 2013

  • ive been in this situation once before.. but I was like 12 lol seriously though.. let it go. if your truly in love with the new guy then you shouldn't be worried about who your friends dating.. or not dating.. idk im confused a little about whats going on lol

    Answer by nnh_mama at 12:34 AM on Sep. 8, 2013

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