He just graduated h.s. and works a part-time job. He has an entitled, spoiled attitude because of the way he's been raised. My sis-in-law is a single mom, and his dad has never been in the picture. They live with grandpa, who indulges him. He has never had to face consequences for his actions. My sis-in-law complains her father undermines her, but she's never moved out.(I think she's too afraid to get out of her comfort zone.) I think Grandpa spoils him, bc he doesn't have a dad. He's created a monster!
He's 18 and now dating a 22 year old single mom. According to my son, he BRAGS about having unprotected sex EVERYDAY! They've been dating 2 weeks. He said she's allergic to condoms and can't use the pill, so they use NO PROTECTION! He's not worried about her getting pregnant, and her 1 year old calls him "Daddy"! How messed up is this!
Yesterday, his mom walked in on them having sex in his bedroom, but he denied it to her! Grandpa knew they were upstairs in his bedroom for hours, and said nothing. Mom asked Grandpa to help her lay down house rules, but he refused to. Gramps said it's her fault the son is having sex openly in the house and disrespecting them! Gramps is an old fashioned, church going guy, so i'm shocked he let this go on under his roof!
My sis-in-law is hystrical. She thinks this girl is trouble and is too old for her son. She is also upset that her dad won't lay down house rules and back her up!
She doesn't even know this girl already has a child! She also doesn't know they're having unprotected sex! I can't say anything, because my son told me in confidence! I am so upset about all of this! He's going to get this girl pregnant, and has no way to provide for a child! In our family, abortion isn't an option. But I don't believe in intentionally bringing children into the world, that you have no way to provide for! Actually, my son said that nephew said Obama will give them money for everything! UGH!
Any insight or wisdom appreciated! I feel powerless to stop a trainwreck in motion!
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