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How do I tell or show my husband that
I want to try something different in bed?

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Asked by Mycutelittleboy at 4:28 PM on Sep. 10, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • tell him, or show him...

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 4:32 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Be upfront and honest with him.

    Answer by louise2 at 4:36 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Men don't catch on to subtleties... you gotta tell him what you want, and ask him what he wants too.

    Answer by anestheticsex at 4:36 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • ^^^What charlotsometimes said.

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:36 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Is it something you need to plan ahead for? I agree with charlot as well, just tell or show him.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 4:37 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • You just do it.

    Guys don't respond to subtlety. You pretty much need a flashing neon sign pointing to your hoo-ha saying "LICK THIS" or whatever it is you want from him.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:49 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Just take a deep breath and throw it out there. I'd be willing to bet on the fact that he probably wants to try stuff, too, and once the subject is brought up, you never know where things might go.

    Answer by Ballad at 6:50 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • If you're too timid to say anything, have a date night and then go to one of those sex shops. Look around and see if there's any toys you want to try. Then he might get the hint you want to be adventurous. Or just drink a bottle of wine and jump his bones and show him what you want him to do to you. When you're done, say " Your turn! " lol

    Answer by RubyBlue82 at 7:45 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Open your mouth and speak. Or use visual aids or ask him if he trusts you enough to let you do what you want this time?

    Answer by Dardenella at 10:34 PM on Sep. 10, 2013

  • Just tell him, or show him while in bed.

    Answer by Pay920 at 2:38 AM on Sep. 17, 2013

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