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if debt collectors can track down people and harass them to no end.
Why can;t the government find my ex husband and make him pay child support?
His kids have no seen him or received support sense 2009.
I understand it's his choice not to see his children but he's just out living his life free as a bird.
Because I'm not on welfare or food stamp, my government does not care about me. That is what I'm told. They are only worried about getting their money back from the ones on welfare.
I did look into one of those companies that say they can help. All they do is look for assets he may have and but a levies on them - get money that way. They do not enforce the child support orders.
Just like, I am, stuck in the middle: not making enough to live comfortable but make too much qualify for any sort of help. I mean not comfortable being that I don't know, what's for dinner tonight. there will be no meat - just pasta.
I'm in pain almost constantly, I pay for health insurance but cannot afford to see a doctor.
I just keep pushing myself until I fall over someday. - - - This is a completely different rant: about how the lady down the street has no job, no insurance and lives off the government AND goes to doctor all the time!
I'm just fed up - sorry this turned into more of a rant then a question.
But any suggestions would be appreciated.
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Has anyone experienced a court modification for visitation?