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My boyfriend told me he will.not marry me after I divorce my ex, I dnt know wat to think or feel bout this , makes me kinda feel like he dnt love me ljke I do him :(

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Asked by kat.hence31 at 10:04 AM on Sep. 12, 2013 in Relationships

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  • maybe he feels you'll cheat on him like you're doing WITH him

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:07 AM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • well first off, you should not be with someone while you are married

    second, you are right he does not love you like you do him

    wash your hands of it

    Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 10:07 AM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • well, you know that he isn't in it for the long term- and if that's what you want out of the relationship, you might as well let him go and move on

    also- why is there a boyfriend BEFORE a divorce?!


    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:09 AM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • Are you "legally" separated? If not then you shouldn't be with anyone. Also, why would you be considering marriage if you're just now getting out of a marriage? IMO you need to get your life straight, be happy on your own, and then date a while before you commit to something again......

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:12 AM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • This story writes itself.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 10:20 AM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • I read recently that many times single men will go out with married women because they're "safe" - they aren't going to tie him down, want him to marry them, financially support them, etc. When the married women leave their marriage, they are no longer safe and the single men dump them.
    Not sure how often it happens, but often enough there was an article written about it.

    Answer by missanc at 10:25 AM on Sep. 12, 2013


    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:12 PM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • And you're surprised by this, why?

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:25 PM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • Maybe you should have divorced your ex before you started dating.... He's not actually your ex until them anyways!

    Answer by Crafty26 at 3:03 PM on Sep. 12, 2013

  • ** then

    Answer by Crafty26 at 3:04 PM on Sep. 12, 2013

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