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To whom would you report this?

I saw 2 little boys shooting the rod at a bus full of kids after he got dropped off that very same bus he had both middle fingers up towards the kids on the bus.

Then I saw another little boy shoot the finger as he walked off to go home he was walking but at the same time he had that middle finger out.

I don't know what it is about boys but something has to give. Ages 10-12

I feel like letting them know I saw them as we drove off (I am a monitor on their bus) or should I just tell the supervisor? I want them to know that if they want to continue to ride in our bus they are going to have to apologize or something...ugh!

Thanks Ladies!


Asked by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Sep. 17, 2013 in Tweens (9-12)

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Answers (25)
  • If those boys were MY boys, I would want to be notified immediately! I wouldn't give a Damn if they were on or off the bus!
    That type of behavior, if it is not dealt with, escalates, because they see know one cares enough to report it and there are no repercussions from it!
    I expected my boys to carry themselves respectively regardless of where they were!

    Answer by KTElite at 12:23 AM on Sep. 18, 2013

  • KTelite, your boys wouldnt have done it to begin with, however I think the biggest issue here is it feels like a power trip sort of post instead of a for real post.

    Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 12:34 AM on Sep. 18, 2013

  • eh...they were off the bus at that point right?

    they weren't hurting anyone- just being brats...

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 11:14 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • They're just being little jackasses.

    Answer by funlovinlady at 11:16 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • Why? They were no longer on the bus and therefore not under school restrictions.
    I think you are taking this way too seriously and maybe should schedule an appointment with the counselor.
    Hint: You do not get to control everything.

    Answer by Dardenella at 11:17 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 11:35 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • "I am a monitor on their bus"


    What would you do had they of done it on the bus? 


    Answer by JeremysMom at 11:03 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • I wouldn't report anything with them flipping people off.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 11:10 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • I am confused.
    What censure do you feel is appropriate for anyone "giving the bird"?

    Answer by feralxat at 11:21 PM on Sep. 17, 2013

  • They weren't on the bus so there is nothing you can do. If you try to keep them off the bus or talk to them about things that happened after they got off the bus, the parents can file a complaint against you. If it happens on the bus, then you can do something about it.

    Answer by kmath at 11:22 PM on Sep. 17, 2013