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What should i do about husband

Does ignoring your husbands needs show him why it bothers me when he ignores me? He comes home says hi then nothing either naps or watches TV. Doesn't ever want to talk! What can I do?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:21 PM on Sep. 25, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (11)
  • Get a vibrator.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:20 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • Ignoring his needs will create more resentment and not solve the problem. What have you tried?
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 12:21 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • Nope all you do is widen the gap. You will grow farther apart.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 1:53 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • What needs will you be ignoring.  Feeding him,  washing his cloths,  sex?

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 7:31 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • ignoring his needs is only going to create more problems

    why do people use sex as some sort of tool or punishment? I will never "get" that?
    *assuming you are talking about sex*

    if you mean just in general- it will still only cause more problems...why not work on the ones you have rather than try to make it worse?
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 8:52 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • If he has no clue why you're ignoring his needs,it won't work. You need to force him to listen to you so you can tell him how hurt you are by his actions. Walk in,shut off the tv,and start talking. From there you can figure out what his issue is
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:59 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • He may not even NOTICE your ignoring his needs.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 9:19 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • Does ignoring your husbands needs show him why it bothers me when he ignores me?

    I wouldn't ignore my SO because he was ignoring you...
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 9:35 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • Try communication. That works far better than giving him a taste of his own medicine.

    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 9:41 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

  • Well when my DH pisses me off. SEX is the last thing on my mind.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:50 AM on Sep. 26, 2013

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