My SO prefers bbws and ssbbws.....well, when he and I met, I was a little on the chunky side. I've put on weight since being with him, but now its causing me a lot of pain. Now I need to lose the weight that I've put on. He completely understands. He would prefer it if I didn't lose any weight, but he really doesn't want me in pain.
Well, now that I'm losing, he's even admitted that I will still be "gorgeous," but I won't be sexually arousing to him. Now I will be lucky if anything happens between us again. He said he's willing to try because he wants me to be enough. We are planning to get married next year.
I understand his desires, but it still really hurts me that I may not be enough for him....how do I handle this? Has anyone ever been in this situation before?
(Besides this issue, I love every apect about our life and he treats me so well! I'm spoiled rotten! It just....this hurts.)
Answer by tntmom1027 at 12:20 AM on Sep. 27, 2013
Answer by KTElite at 12:20 AM on Sep. 27, 2013
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Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:28 AM on Sep. 27, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 1:17 AM on Sep. 27, 2013
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