So my babysitter is 17, she babysat last night and sometimes we get into deep conversations just before she goes home. She asked me flat out "how do I know I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend?" So my reply was "has he given you an orgasm yet, if he hasn't then there is still more exploring to do before either of you are ready." ....shit I'm not sure if I said the right thing I mean I also told her to talk to her mom. But it's one of those thing you go back in your mind and could I have said something different. I just feel like it wasn't enough you know!
I would have told her that she needs to consider the consequences and talk to her mother about it. I would mention that while it is a mutual interest for both the female and the male to use protection, to never depend on anyone else to be responsible for her own fertility. I would strongly suggest she speak to a Dr. about using some form of reliable BC before even considering having sex. But mostly I would promote her communicating her questions and feelings with her mother.
Answer by QuinnMae at 12:08 PM on Sep. 27, 2013
Good Lord, NO!
If my kid talked to me and told me the convo, she would never be allowed in your home again.
Since your nine year old shaking her ass is bad what in the world makes you think you can talk to another CHILD about orgasms and sexual activity?
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