My bf and I have been together a yr. I am ready to get engaged he is no where near ready. I told him I am not going to wait much longer 8-9 months longer I will wait and he says he still won't be ready should I just cut my losses and leave him and find someone who wants the same as I do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:05 AM on Sep. 30, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by goldpandora at 9:10 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Answer by rachel216 at 9:23 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Answer by goldpandora at 9:25 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Answer by goldpandora at 9:26 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Damn, just a year? Life doesn't happen on a schedule. If you want something he doesn't then that makes a difference. If he says he doesn't know if he will ever be ready to get married then I think it would be wise to leave. But if he just needs more time, sometimes that's what it takes.
Honestly, I can't imagine giving someone an ultimatum on a lifetime commitment. I wouldn't appreciate someone doing that to me and ultimatums usually have the opposite of the desired effect.
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:29 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Answer by wendythewriter at 9:37 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
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