I have been with this guy for 6 months I care about him a lot but I am going to school to become a Pastor. Once I am done with Pastoral school next march they can send me pretty much anywhere to preach. The guy that I am seeing is trying to make me choose my career or him. Because when I become a Pastor we won't be married and he won't be able to move with me. So he is making me choose becoming a Pastor or him. What ya'll think?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:08 AM on Sep. 30, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by kmath at 10:09 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 10:12 AM on Sep. 30, 2013
All I can say is what I would do in your position. Someone that is willing to make me give something up in order to have a future with them will control my life from there forth. A loving partner wants you to fulfill your dreams and be a part of it, not stop you from obtaining it. If it were me, I would let him go. As I said in an earlier thread, ultimatums usually have the opposite of the desired effect.
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