I met a guy about a week ago. I really like him as a guy friend. He's honest, sweet, cool, humble, etc. He buys my son toys, takes me out, fills my gas tank up, willing to pay for a baby sitter who watch my son himself while I work, etc.
.....BUT! There's a problem. I am not attracted to him. I am totally attracted to his personality, just not him as for as looks go. He's not that handsome, and he is 14 years older than me. I am 21. His son is just 2 years younger than me. Im sort of embarrassed to be seen with him. Gosh that sounds AWFUL!! :(( Omg!!!!!! We went to a club the other night, and a girl asked me if he was my "pimp". What the heck???? She says he looks old! I felt so bad for him, and at the same time embarrassed. :(
I don't know what to do at this point. I feel like theres a slight chance that I may eventually start liking him as more than a friend.
Question is.......... Is it possible to be with someone you're not really attracted to in the physical sense?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:18 PM on Sep. 30, 2013 in Relationships
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Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:51 PM on Sep. 30, 2013
a week ago!
you are 21 and he is 14 years older
could he be acting this way because he wants a piece of young ass?
buying your child toys and he knows you A WEEK
any guy can be nice for A WEEK
all very creepy
Answer by fiatpax at 5:21 PM on Sep. 30, 2013
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