our friend, we've been calling him and his wife brother and sister a month after we meet them, well he started choughing up blood back in march. the local er said it was just a virus and nothing to worry about. monday i took him to another city's er. now we find out he has throat cancer! tuesday my hubby took him to the same dr that saw him in the er (i stayied with his wife she has seziers (i don't know how to spell it and can't find it in the dictionary) and her dr put her on new pills.). weds hubby took him and his wife to the ssi building and welfare to get medical and the dr told him he had to quit his job. (he works at a scrap yard) thursday he had to have surgery, he had a feeding tube put in him, (i thought i was going to stay home and get some laundry done, he wanted me there! almost made me cry) he can't have anything but adult formula for right now. while his wife is tending to him 24/7, i made dinner all week, helped her do the dishes and a couple of other small things, like pick up trash that fell onto the floor, pick up laundry, that sort of thing.
here's my problem, i don't know how to really help. she's just like, she'll start crying on the spot for reason. i just want to be helpful but not sure how. she has to take pills three times a day, and she has i don't remember the name, but it's where you can't sleep, she has to be hooked up to a machine in order for her sleep.
he's going to be going to kemo soon and i'm just not sure how to help.
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