Most of us love our husbands. Most of our husbands are decent men...but I was never attracted to the "nicey nice" guys, so when I met my now husband who was mysterious, intelligent, handsome and not the best boyfriend in the world, I fell in love. One child later, I'm kind of paying the price for my attraction. He's dependable and nice enough, but has a short fuse. I like to keep things positive, but if he's not happy he lets everyone know it.
In some cases, the men we were attracted to or even ended up marrying may not have been the best choices for lifetime partners. Since all of that initial attraction becomes irrelevant anyway, I should have gone the super nice route.
What are your experiences? Did you marry the "nice" guy? OR are you making it work with a decent man with whom you were once madly in love with, but he isn't necessarily a "sweetheart?"
Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Oct. 12, 2013 in Relationships
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