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Is it ok to marry a man who is 15 years older than me?

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Ninzz

Asked by Ninzz at 9:22 AM on Oct. 13, 2013 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • Age shouldn't really matter. There are other things to consider tho. How long have you known him? How long have you been together? Have you accomplished some of your life goals before you consider settling down? If not, why rush into marriage?
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 9:26 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • How old are you?
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 9:28 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • I'm not yet done with my studies. Yes he's ready to wait till i finish university. But the thoughts like 2 of us can't get old together & he'll be 70 when i reach 55 bother me..
    Ninzz

    Comment by Ninzz (original poster) at 9:31 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • You didn't exactly answer the question, did you?
    What is your age?
    If you are 15 and he is 30, then no it is not Ok.
    If you are 30 and he is 45, who cares?

    Then again if you have to ask, there is a high probability that you are too young (either mentally or chronologically) to know yourself.
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 9:36 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • But the thoughts like 2 of us can't get old together & he'll be 70 when i reach 55 bother me..
    Ninzz Comment by Ninzz (original poster) 3 minutes ago

    ^^^So if that's a deal breaker for you, then I guess you have your answer already. No matter what you decide, please finish school first & foremost.
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 9:36 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • Are you under 18? If so,no,don't marry someone in their early 30's
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:41 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • i'm 19
    Ninzz

    Comment by Ninzz (original poster) at 9:51 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • In my opinion,a man of 33 should not be interested in a teenager. It wanders to the edge of pedophilia
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:54 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • First we were just friends & why he's interested in me is coz during that period i never did hurt him & i always talked to him with respect & so.. Even i always wanted a man like him.. i mean all the qualities i expect from my huby are there within him.. only age is what bothers me
    Ninzz

    Comment by Ninzz (original poster) at 10:01 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

  • As long as you are 18+ then yes it is ok, or if you are under 18 you have your parents permission although under 18 is weird to me.
    cassie_kellison

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 10:06 AM on Oct. 13, 2013

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