So SO is in CA finishing out his navy contract I am in AZ setting up the house with our kids. We have been married 7 years so we do know each other (although still learning lol) Well he has this friend at his command, a female. He is friends with males as well but she is of a particular sour point for me. One she's a cool down to earth one of the guys chick. She is fit (she hits the gym everyday) and she's my husbands type. Brunette down earth one of the guys chick lol. He even said if he was single he would prolly go for her. He has her cell number in his phone, he also has male co workers cell number sin his phone it's for work purposes. I have met her. She is very cool and I sensed no sexual tension or awkwardness from her. Well he plays World of Warcraft and always goes to his raids RELIGIOUSLY! Of late he has been getting stir crazy (we can ALL relate to that lol) Well he is thinking this weekend instead of raiding one night he hangs out with her like they go to her place and drink or go out and do something. I am not cool with this. They are going alone, he is married (so ummmm he's mine) she is single. If it was a group I wouldn't mind but it's not...am I right to not be happy with this? I don't want to start a fight and push him into doing something stupid because he's mad at me or because I am offhandedly accusing him of something. I do trust him (believe it or not) He hates cheaters (he was cheated on ALOT) and he is jealous as well. He didn't go the sleazebag route after being cheated on he went the jealousy route lol. What do you ladies think?
Answer by Skepticchick at 12:23 PM on Oct. 14, 2013
Hmm, this is a tough one. My husband is similar (WOW, women co-workers, etc). He has gone trail running with one of his female co-workers once and that did hurt me a bit because I have been begging him to go hiking with me and he won't. There was one female that he would hang out with on occasion but it was mainly in a group or with at least one other person. I trust my husband and I am sure you trust yours so what I would do is just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him being in that situation.
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