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what will happen to my new nephew when he is born if the mother had CPS take one away already?

my sister in law and brother in law had there 3 yr old taken she hasnt done anything the state has asked her to do and when we ask her questions she lies about everything so we dont know whats going on or if they will ever get the child back. she is pregnant and due in jan will CPS take that babyt too? Please help me to find some truth in this matter!!!

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mjb1974

Asked by mjb1974 at 4:36 PM on Oct. 14, 2013 in General Parenting

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  • Probably. If they find out she is pregnant. They will put an alert out to all hospitals. It really just depends on how they are between now and then. Obviously they don't seem to want the 3 year old back.
    2autisticsmom

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 4:39 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • depends on why the took the 3 year old, you can as family ask to have the child put in your care and you can try to get the 3 year old as well since you are family so that he isn't in the "system".
    luvmygrandgirl

    Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 4:45 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • i agree with Luvmygrandgirl. If I was you I would be calling CPS to inquire.
    tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 4:55 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • It depends on the situation.
    This is what I can tell you. Their records are private and you may have no access to them.
    If you are thinking that you might wish to adopt her child you will have to talk to CPS and see what you might have to do. They will not tell you if it will result in you getting th baby only the step needed if the child is taken away. In some states the parents can still specify if they absolutely do not a certain person to adopt their child, but again how much weight that holds depends on the situation.

    Bottom line is your only source of information is the neice and if she chooses not to tell you or anyone else, she does not have to and there is nothing you can do about it.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 5:07 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • sorry that should be sister in law.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 5:07 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • Typically, if the mother isn't cooperating with whatever plans have been put in place to get her first child back, CPS will take any more children she gives birth to. An alert will be put out to all hospitals in the vicinity. If you or someone in your family wants to be considered as potential foster parents for the baby, you need tomake that known to CPS now.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 9:36 PM on Oct. 14, 2013

  • Depends on why they took the 3 year old in the first place. Likely since she is not cooperating they will at the very least be watching her like a hawk though.
    aeneva

    Answer by aeneva at 8:10 AM on Oct. 15, 2013

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