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16 Year Old DD sleeping with her bf at home? adult content

My dd's best friend is allowed to sleep with her bf at his house, and now my dd thinks she should be allowed to have her bf sleep here. I know my dd and her bf have been having safe sex but not sure how I feel about them actually sleeping together at my house. Anyone had this happen?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:06 AM on Oct. 19, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Not at my house!

    Not until they are married or living together. Nope... Nope...NOPE!

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 2:13 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • No. Just because you know their having sex doesn't mean you need to enable them.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 2:19 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • *they're*

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 2:19 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • Your house, your rules. It doesn't matter what the parents of your daughter's friends allow in their homes.

    Answer by Ballad at 2:22 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • I'm sorry, but I just don't get why some parents allow that to happen. Call me old-fashioned, or just not ready to be a grandparent yet, I don't think parents should enable or encourage their teenagers to have sex. I'm not dumb, I know if they are hell-bent on doing "it", then they will find a way. But I'm not comfortable at all about it taking place right under my roof. It's just not happening.

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:27 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • That is all up to you. If you are comfortable letting them do that. But me, Hell no!!! Cold day in hell!!!!! Never, never, never!!!

    Answer by louise2 at 8:18 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • I never would allow this....

    Answer by older at 8:59 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • Just because you say no does not mean it will not happen in your house, however, if YOU do not want to give permission that is your business.. I personally would not say go for it but I do know of parents who would say yes so that they know they are not having sex in unfit places or places where they could get caught and into trouble because they KNOW they are going to have sex somewhere.

    Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 9:27 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • I'm open minded as can be but no way in hell. I'm not going to be the cool mom who let's my kids have sex in my house, buys them beer, or shares my pills with them.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 11:05 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

  • Wouldn't happen in my house.

    Answer by kmath at 11:08 AM on Oct. 19, 2013

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