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I closed out all my open questions today...

So I got bored at work, and closed all my open questions... About 55 of them I think. And, I am sooooo bummed by the number of members who aren't here any more. I kept getting error messages on my Best Answer choices because those accounts no longer exist.

I knew we had lost a few good members, but this really surprised me. What a let down... I wish we could bring most of them back.

sorry, no real question. Just an observation.... :(

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Nimue930

Asked by Nimue930 at 9:17 PM on Oct. 20, 2013 in About CafeMom

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Answers (11)
  • You're not the first to close out questions and notice that many of of the members are gone.
    Rosehawk

    Answer by Rosehawk at 9:20 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • i cant remember the last time i went thru and closed out my questions. i remember when points first started some members would eat you alive if you admitted to not picking best answers in a timely manner...since the points were so important haha. it is sad how many have left :(

    thanks for the best answer!
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 9:24 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • Yeah, it's a bummer. We've lost some good moms.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 9:29 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • Thank you for the best answers. Reminded me of better times when we loved and supported each other instead of ganging up and being rude for no reason. <3
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 10:45 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • I know, right Staci??? Rereading some of the awesome answers made me wish we had that camaraderie again. But I'm hoping we will... We just need to keep focused on all the great women on here and ignore the lame trolls
    Nimue930

    Comment by Nimue930 (original poster) at 10:55 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • My friends list has dropped dramatically!

    We lost 3 more last week!
    KTElite

    Answer by KTElite at 11:10 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • Well I will make a vow right now to be kind. It is easy to see everyone else's snide remarks and follow suit. Maybe we can break the cycle.
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 11:28 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • BOOOOO!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:29 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

  • I do not know who left. But I know one thing. I do not get bashed much any more. So my bashes must be gone. Or they are ignoring me.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 8:56 AM on Oct. 21, 2013

  • Well I will make a vow right now to be kind. It is easy to see everyone else's snide remarks and follow suit. Maybe we can break the cycle.
    staciandababy Answer by staciandababy at 11:28 PM on Oct. 20, 2013

    ^^^^What an awesome idea! Maybe you can start a kindness pact. It's implied in the rules, but we all know they aren't followed as they should be. Count me in :)
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:25 AM on Oct. 22, 2013

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