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Im in a relationship but I feel single

Almost like he's not there..
he's so independent and when Im sad or glad he cant really tell or doesnt say much
Have you ever felt this?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on Oct. 23, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Yes. And we sat and talked about it for a long time. He was honestly clueless about a lot of my feelings until I told him, which makes sense because he's not a mind reader! Now I'm just more direct and it helps. Don't let it stay like that, it's the worst feeling you could have. If it doesn't change or is not something he works on, ask yourself if that's what you want for the rest of your life. Might be time to move on....
    WhyPiggy

    Answer by WhyPiggy at 2:50 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • You should run as fast as your legs will carry you. There's not much here to build on.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 4:59 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • If you want him to know how you feel. You need to tell him.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 5:34 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • did you talk to HIM about this?
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 3:43 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • When you say "independent", do you mean not attentive to you, or not spending enough time with you? If you are not happy about how things are going, you have 1 of 2 choices. You talk to him & see if things can be worked out or improved upon, or you chalk this up as a learning experience & move forward w/out him.
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:55 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • Then it sounds like things aren't working out very well.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 2:53 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • This is not the relationship that will last.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 4:46 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • You are not in a relationship
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 4:52 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • Sorry.
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 5:18 PM on Oct. 23, 2013

  • It's normal to feel that way now and then, but if it's all the time, and if you've brought it to his attention with no positive results, then you might be better off single. You'd at least have the possibility of something better in the future then.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 8:37 PM on Oct. 23, 2013