As some of you may know, we've been dealing w/ having my 22 y/o son back at home for about a year now. He is working 2 PT jobs, but did not go back to school this semester. He's still being a big slob too. But he is buying some of his food & regularly paying his $25/wk rent. (Although he still owes some back rent) We had reached the end of our patience w/ the boy the other day, until my hubby came up w/ a brilliant plan.
We will give him a written 30 day notice to either make some changes or find a new place to live. If he turns things around in those 30 days, we will allow him to sign a 1 yr. "lease" w/ some stipulations about our very reasonable expectations. If during that year, he breaks conditions of the agreement, he will be given another notice to leave.
This way it's up to him & his behavior as to whether or not he gets to stay here. Sounds fair right? Is there anything you can think of to add to it? (We are including a stipulation about him returning to school since he has 3 yrs to graduate & get his own insurance)
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