He called me in the morning and said that he didn't meant to and he was taking back all the things he said. I felt to him like I'm disposable. He promised me that he was not going to ask me for the divorce one more time and he didn't keep his promise. Last time I wrote about him telling me that I had to find another man and why I'm with him and some of you said that probably he was depressed. After I wrote in here about my problems he had to take me to the hospital because I had a very bad migraine. Had to receive 2 shots one for pain and nausea because I couldn't stop puking.
That day when we were at the hospital there was a possibility I could be pregnant but it was negative it was migraine because of the stress. I can't process things right now because one day we're talking about having a baby and the other day about divorce. I don't feel stable enough to even consider bring another baby to this world if the next day he's talking about divorce. I'm scared and don't know how to handle and process the information.
I can't talk with him about our problems because the first solution that he seeks is for divorce. How can I feel secure with him? I'm so down right now and just venting.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:56 PM on Oct. 24, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by missanc at 2:05 PM on Oct. 24, 2013
It is not ok for anyone to play with your feelings like this. You need to make up your mind if this is worth it for you. IMO, you should leave. Not only is this yo-yo game not ok, now you are suffering physically and ending up in the hospital. Please take the time to think about what you want. Would it be a relief and easier to just walk away? Or are you willing to just deal with it? No one should have to deal with this.
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