Truly it is at first a gut instinct. At least for me, but I didn't want to believe it, so I lived in denial until it hit me in the face with two marriages that it happened in. If your spouse is acting differently than he/she has been...look into it. My last husband lied til the bitter end and when we divorced and I moved out, she was moved in the next day. There was an STD issue that did come up and God did clear me of, which the doctor said was from him. Don't know if your a christian or not, but if it is possible, go to another place to stay and evaluate the situation. IT takes getting outside the box to see what you can't or don't want to see while your in the box.
I pray for you that there is a working solution for you if you and your husband do love each other. And if you have GOD in your lives it will make a difference. I never did in my marriages, but I know now that without Him there is no way to survive.
at 9:40 AM on Oct. 26, 2013