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ladies when you're about to have sex with a guy for the first time, how clean do you want that area down there to be? i feel a little ocd about it. my guy that ive been seeing for the past 4 months is coming over tonight and i know we're going to do the deed and i also know that he likes to go down. so ive already taken a bath and everything but ive also had to pee a few times and he isn't here yet. if it was you would you wash that area again? i dont want to feel self conscious or worry about tasting bad the first time we get intimate.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:47 PM on Oct. 26, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • When you go to get ready, brush your teeth & wash down there before you go to bed. Don't forget protection!
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:49 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • Whore's bath.
    (washcloth in the sink)
    Or use some freshening wipes if you have those.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 6:51 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • but i shouldnt do that when he's here right? lol it would be kind of weird if he knew i was in there washing it for him
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:57 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • If you're worried about what he'd think about you freshening up,I don't think you're ready to be intimate with him
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:59 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • How is it weird? He will just hear water running. If you embarrass that easily, how are you gonna feel about getting naked in front of him?!
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:00 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • Somewhere I heard the phrase "If it smells like fish, it's a tasty dish. If it smells like cologne, leave it alone."
    Wash now, and then let your natural musk (pheromones) take over from here. Obviously, if you take a big smelly dump between now and then, freshen up.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:01 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • haha ok got it. i am ready im just a little shy
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:23 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • Are you ovulating?!

    :)
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 7:54 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • So you want to be clean? But you do not want him to know you are cleaning it for him? You just want him to think you always are fresh and clean down their? Every time you pee. Clean you crotch then. How old are you?
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:02 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

  • How on Earth would he know what you were doing in the bathroom? Do you have doors?
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 9:42 PM on Oct. 26, 2013

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