I feel such bad mom...I told so many bad things to my daughter... but frankly I am also SOOOO disappointed in her. I need advice on what to do... She is nine years old. It started in the morning...my daughter did not want to go swimming, she yelled and cried, but then decided to go, she swam well, but still was almost the last... Later the day went normal, we ate played ping pong, did laundry and then she asked to carve the pumpkin. We never did it before and I was fairly tired...She felt this is hard and dirty and did not want to finish, she refused to clean up and did not want to put a candle to fire it because it required effort, the candle kept falling down.
Then we wanted to play Yatzeee, a new game she got, but she REFUSED to read instructions, she told mom, you do it, I read and asked her to read, offered her to read paragraph she, paragraph me, she crawled away, then took the game away without even trying to read.
Here I broke, I start tell her how stupid she is and how I disappointed in her, that she is stubborn and lazy, she was crying and stating she hates me and I told her I hate her back...I could not stop, I NEVER was that negative and disappointed toward my daughter. Why could not she read simple instruction...Why I could not stop tell her I don't love her, even though I want the best for her more than anything else. I spend all my money on her-music, art, math tutor, chess club and more in order that she will be well educated and succeed in life...Luckily her dad took her away for a walk that I could quiet down
Why she is so unmotivated to persist in doing simple things and what happen to me what kind of devil entered into me...HELP.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Oct. 26, 2013 in Tweens (9-12)
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:58 PM on Oct. 26, 2013
You are the stupid bitch and you need to be a grown up walk up to your poor daughter and tell her you are having a bad day and pmsing. Tell her you took out everything you feel about yourself on her and tell her sometimes girls get crazy and that she will be having emotional moods soon and today was a worst as it gets day. Tell her you have been expecting to much from her and you will ease up on all the activities you put her in. You are the problem and you hate yourselves not her she needs to know that, I wish I could shake you right now. Fix yourself before you damage that girl any further all the activities in the world does not equal success. Love and believing in yourself equals success
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