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Venting. would this bother you? adult content

so the court order states that my ex and i share halloween (fuck me right?) and since tomorrow night is my night to have them obviously we'll be trick or treating out here where i live. the ONLY word i've heard from him so far about halloween is last week when he was asking me what i planned on dressing up as and if i wanted to 'wrestle with him in our birthday suits' after. halloween is tomorrow and he hasn't said a single word about it. i have no idea when he plans on showing up or anything. and i'll be damned if i'm going to call him and ask. but it's just like... where the hell are his priorities? his pants obviously.

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Asked by tnm786 at 1:42 PM on Oct. 30, 2013 in Relationships

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  • I think you should be Lorenna Bobbit for Halloween, LOL!

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 1:46 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • buahahhaa! im actually not dressing up this year but i should as something hideous.

    Comment by tnm786 (original poster) at 1:47 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • EX? DH or just SO? He has the court order to doesn"t he?
    Share? How? Go out together? Or you have this year. He has next year? Or the kids go out at your area and his area?
    If he doesn't contact you. Just do what you have planed.

    Answer by louise2 at 1:49 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • What an asshole! Hell yeah, it would bother me. I'd be spitting bullets.

    Answer by Ballad at 1:50 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • "Share" probably means every other year. Your ex is an ass. I'd cuss mine out if he said something like that to me.

    Answer by 3libras at 1:50 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • Lorenna Bobbit. You would just carry around a knife and a hot dog! LOL

    Answer by louise2 at 1:51 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • i'm sorry i worded that improperly. halloween is done together, every year.

    Comment by tnm786 (original poster) at 1:52 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • i told him i have a boyfriend LOL he hasn't spoken to me since. but still if he wanted to spend time with his kids on halloween he wouldn't be a little bitch about it

    Comment by tnm786 (original poster) at 1:52 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • Don't even bother contacting him... My sons father used to do the same crap. If they want to be involved the will be involved. don't far as that text I'd nip that in the bud if you guys aren't "together" anymore. That is straight out disrespect.

    Answer by ImMommyMandie at 1:57 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

  • Do you have his last inquiry in writing? Document the hell out of everything. He's headed right toward losing all rights.

    Answer by gdiamante at 1:59 PM on Oct. 30, 2013

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