Over the past few months, I feel like my marriage is deteriorating. We had some family issues, but we worked through those and resolved them. Things have been much better! However, DH will randomly come up to me and say that if I ever cheat on him he'll kill me. When I laughed it off like a joke, he repeated it. Creepy! A month before that he made a joke(?) about burying me in the backyard. He seems to be more controlling over me leaving the house without the kids as well. I never go anywhere, maybe 4 times last year, and trying to have a dinner with my Mom friends is like going out clubbing to him. He got angry the other day because I wanted to go somewhere for a couple hours and started screaming. He was in my face so close that his spit was hitting me. I didn't even yell back. He carried on, told me I was crazy and psycho, and then told me he was leaving me. Then, he didn't talk to me the rest of the night. This was the night after he threatened to kill me if I ever cheated. He woke me up today and apologized, but I have a very unsettling feeling. It crossed my mind that maybe he's abusive and I'm blind to it. Or maybe he has some weird sense of humor? Or maybe he's insecure? I'm not sure what to think so I'm hoping to get an outside perspective.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Oct. 30, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Dardenella at 2:32 PM on Oct. 30, 2013
Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 2:33 PM on Oct. 30, 2013
Was he like this before you married him? Were your family issues related to cheating in any way? What made him bring up the subject of cheating out of the blue? Have you sat down & tried to talk to him about his insecurities regarding you? Were you attracted to him because of his possessiveness & now it's getting old? Missing a lot of info to help here.
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