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What are some of your dealbreakers?

aside from the obvious (cheating/abusive)

like... poor hygiene? momma's boy? jobless, carless? etc

the guy i'm seeing is a great guy, but it slightly irks me that he doesn't spell words correctly. i mean, he's not terrible but he always puts your where there should be a you're. he wrote brake for break. LOL. it's not a dealbreaker it's just a pet peeve i guess. definitely doesn't detract from everything else that is great about him :)

now if he were a text speech speller, i just couldn't. i kant tlk 2 guyz tht spell lyk dis n shyt.

 
tnm786

Asked by tnm786 at 4:03 PM on Nov. 1, 2013 in Just for Fun

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Answers (15)
  • Guys who chew tobacco is the ultimate dealbreaker. Granted I have been out of the dating pool for almost 12 years but that is just a hellll no.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:21 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • Bad hygiene, tasteless/no sense of humor, hot temper, criminal record, no career, no ambition, chauvinist, strongly religious, selfish, no manners, any addictions, kids he's not supporting, and not saving for retirement.
    anng.atlanta

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 5:24 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • I sometimes mispell, but my husband does the same thing, seen/sean no/know and so on..
    I would say not brushing the teeth, not cleaning, no job or more than 1 baby mamma! LOL
    2kids2dogs2cats

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 4:06 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • I stopped dating a guy once because his toilet was disgusting, LOL! I should also add that spelling and smarts don't always go hand in hand, sometimes your hand is working faster than your brain!
    2kids2dogs2cats

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 4:10 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • smoker
    drinker (more than once in awhile)
    cannot keep a job
    Not good with money (spends it on stupid shit like lottery tickets,comic books,and then can't pay his bills)
    Hasn't cut the umbilical cord with his mom (figuratively)
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:20 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • Drugs (illegal or addicted to legal)
    Drinking (more than an occasional drink)/drunk
    Smoking/tobacco use
    No job/can't keep one

    IDK, its been like 15 years since I made out my list. I think I had more then...
    hopeandglory53

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 4:47 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • Off the top of my head: smoking, drinking too much, drug use, felony convictions (I'm willing to hear them out if they can convince me it was like self defense or something), having kids they never see and/or don't take care of, living at home with parents, no job, no car, too many divorces, having kids with a bunch of different women. That's all I can think of right now.
    wendythewriter

    Answer by wendythewriter at 5:14 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • smoker, jobless, carless, bad hygiene (esp teeth), criminal record, drug use, gamer.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 5:26 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • If I was ever single again. Deal breakers would be. Smoker, drinking excessively. Drug use. Having kids under 18.  Not having good hygiene.  To many bill/in debt. No job or no money coming in to pay bills. Having a criminal record. 


    The being a smoker alone would stop me from dating him right off the bat.  Me now DH still smokes and I hate it.  

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 4:50 PM on Nov. 1, 2013

  • Bad Breath, smelly ass (LOL!), lives with his Mother, spends more on beauty products than me, spends more time in front of a mirror than me, has no manners, is obnoxious, drives a girly car, cannot fix things himself, knows nothing about how a car works, cannot change a tire. Cannot build something out of wood. Does not have a job. That's all I can think of quickly....I'll get back to you. :)
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 4:51 PM on Nov. 1, 2013