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2 Bumps

Would you go on a date if your not interested?

I don't like black guys and recently was asked out by one. I took his number and gave mine because I wasn't put off by him and didn't feel like explaining why I don't date black men or hear the famous line, I'm not like the rest or give me a try. I wouldn't mind a free meal but I already know there isn't any attraction on my end. He is an older guy, 46 ish and probably inly aees, me as something "young". Have any lf yougone through this? Or what would you do.


Asked by Jazmineamomma at 4:41 PM on Nov. 2, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • Maybe he will let you borrow some money.

    Answer by staciandababy at 9:49 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • If you have no interest, don't go.

    Answer by m-avi at 4:47 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • No I wouldn't go. A free meal isn't worth the energy of getting ready, small talk, etc. I'd rather buy my own food. But I've never labeled a whole group of men as people I don't like based on something they can't help, like their race. That seems sorta smallminded imo

    Answer by Nimue930 at 4:58 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • I wouldn't date someone I had no interest in. Just a waste of both of our time and guys seem to easily mix signals.


    Answer by QuinnMae at 5:02 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Not only a waste of time but really unfair to the guy

    Answer by Daigen at 5:13 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Seems unfair to the person who is taking you out, especially if you give him the idea you might be interested when you already know you are not. Why play games?

    Answer by Ballad at 6:00 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Yeah I was thinking the same thing. Waste of my time just for food.

    Comment by Jazmineamomma (original poster) at 5:07 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Yeah

    Comment by Jazmineamomma (original poster) at 5:16 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • You don't date your own race?
    No,that would be leading him on

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:04 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • If I wasn't interested in him I'd say no thank you. And if he asked why, I just don't feel that way about you, or I'm more comfortable with guys my own age.

    Answer by ohwrite at 6:07 PM on Nov. 2, 2013