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Have you ever had a love affair with your best g.f.?

If you have, do you call it cheating if you have a SO?

I love my best friend but I'm married. What are your thoughts?
She has the same feelings for me.


Asked by Anonymous at 6:00 PM on Nov. 2, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (24)
  • Sex?
    Yes and yes

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:01 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • your best g.f.?

    As in a lesbian encounter??? Troll much dude??

    Answer by Crafty26 at 6:08 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Vagina or penis, it is still cheating, being bi-sexual doesn't give you a free pass to cheat.

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 6:37 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Sex with someone other than your significant other, without their cheating.

    Answer by ohwrite at 6:03 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • No, I've never dipped in the lady pond.
    But, the question is, if your best friend was male, would you consider it cheating? If so, then you know your answer.
    Some men would not mind their wives being with another woman (and would want to join in) but, I think that they would want it to remain purely sexual because, when you throw in "love" then it becomes more than just sex.

    Answer by 3libras at 6:05 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • No, I haven't.
    Yes, it would be cheating.
    I don't have any thoughts on this. I have no practical experience to draw from. Sorry.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 6:25 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • I'm not a dude Crafty.
    Just curious if anyone else have had the same feelings towards their best girlfriend. Nothing more.



    Comment by Anonymous OP




    Answer by Anonymous at 6:54 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • Here's the thing....would you keep it secret from your SO? If it's something you can't tell them, then it's a problem.

    Answer by ohwrite at 6:09 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • if you're having sex with someone else without the knowledge of your SO then it is cheating, regardless of gender.

    Answer by tnm786 at 6:31 PM on Nov. 2, 2013

  • i love you butterflyblue

    do you like my cheat hair?

    i did it just for you


    Answer by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Nov. 2, 2013