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How to get rid of husbands online girlfriend

she is younger than me and she knows he is married

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Asked by TikiDoll at 6:44 AM on Nov. 5, 2013 in Relationships

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  • How about getting rid of the husband? Your problem isn't her, it's him. Even if you run her off, he will find someone else. Why do you want to be with a guy that doesn't want to be with just you???

    Answer by missanc at 6:53 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • missanc covered it all

    all except the facepalms

    ...wait for them, they are coming

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:03 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 7:12 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • I agree that if, by some miracle, you could get rid of this one, he would probably just find another one. Why not try to deal with the reason why he feels the need to be married and to have a girlfriend? Has he always been a man of such poor character? And if he is, why did you choose to spend your life with him? The reasons why people do stuff is far more important than the behaviors themselves. So, instead of trying to get rid of the lady friend, try to get to the root of your problems and fix those.

    Answer by NannyB. at 7:21 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • That is grounds. For getting rid of the DH. Tell her she can have him.

    Answer by louise2 at 7:22 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • Getting a divorce always seems the most popular answer but its not worth destroying my family over. My boys deserve a chance to be raised in a home with both parents.

    Comment by TikiDoll (original poster) at 7:43 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • Getting a divorce isn't destroying your family, your husband is destroying your family. If he isn't willing to stop his behavior there isn't anything you can do to have a healthy marriage. If you stay, you are condoning his infidelity and teaching your children that its okay. Do you want that to be their model of what a normal marriage looks like?
    Getting rid of one girl isn't going to change your husband. HE has to be the one to stop it, them you can go to counseling and try to repair your broken relationship.

    Answer by missanc at 7:50 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • Then you make it 100% clear that you will not tolerate this kind of emotional cheating and that he needs to stop this NOW.

    Answer by goldpandora at 7:51 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • Hmmmm....I think the real problem may be your husband, just a thought.

    Answer by 3libras at 8:05 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

  • yes, your boys 'deserve' to be raised in a home where treating women like shit and cheating on them is acceptable.eye rolling


    Answer by tnm786 at 8:13 AM on Nov. 5, 2013

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