is it ever a good idea to go back to that person even if its years later? or once broken always broken? we did no have trust issues. more like financial burdens and losing his kids..led to a little bit of abuse.
some people do it and their happy, other do it and same problems arise.
but how can you know if that persons changed or not...I want to be commited to this person who I just broke up with its very weird, and he wont know about it, but i love him so its easy to save myself for him. he is having an extremely hard time in life however at the moment so the relationship was bringing me down and i had to go. say a year passes, however, and we are both on a better track. would it be unwise to try things out again?
He is 30 and just moved in with his mom after quiting his job because his ex took the kids and dragged them across the state. The ex has been doing this to him for years, they do not have lawyers (dont ask me why-its none of my business anyway) so she just keeps getting newer better jobs and taking the kids. he kept following her for years but now hes fed up and quit his job and moved back home. i moved in with his moms as well, and everything but he started to get MEAN real mean to everyone and asking for money from everyone. I gave him hundreds if not thousands. Here I am just 24 though trying to put myself through college and im paying for this guys child support when i have my own financial burdens i have to deal with? Anyway, we both still love eachother A LOT we are not interested in any other person, or even dating for that matter. So my question to you is, do you think it would be unwise to consider dating him again in say a year or so, if not longer..however long it takes for him/us to get our shit together. I had a job and school, but I mean REALLY get our shit together such as he get his career back and I get my career started. He also has extremely bad credit and lots of debt..is this someone I want to think of having a future with just because i love them? hes still paying his exes bail...which i ended up paying sometimes which made me mad..i guess he's just not ready for a relationship? What do you think
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