If so does it stop... especially if the child is working short hours and going to community college PT but yet you hear he/she spends their money being on the internet buying stuff.
Which there is nothing wrong if that is what they want to do with their money.
But then turns around and ask for money to pay for their CC they have never once showed us any type of prove of grades or anything (oh maybe once) but on a regular basis...no it would be nice to keep it a steady flow if not I do not want to just give them money just bc they are our child.
When will they ever learn responsibility if we keep forking out the bill.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:23 PM on Nov. 12, 2013 in Adult Children (18+)
We allow our boys to live at home rent free, utilities and food free.....as long as they are going to school full time and getting good grades. We do NOT pay for their car, phone, CC's, dates, gas, etc. those are their bills.
If they don't go to school full time they must make a financial contribution, determined by their dad and me.
The idea is to help them get a good start in life, not to make them dependant on us!!
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