Hi, I am currently pregnant. I have decided that the best thing would be to place my baby up for adoption because I am not able to care for it adequately and neither is the father. The only thing is the father refuses. I understand this baby is his as well BUT, he has 2 other kids who he doesn't support or interact with. He has problems with drugs and alcohol. He lives in a one room motel and is behind in his rent. He has no license, and has a violent crime on record along with drug charges. I recently broke up with him because he uses me and my money and I was sick of it. I feel like he is out of anger just trying to control me because I refuse to give him rides to work and from work and I won't give him money anymore. He hangs out with meth heads and other not so good people as well. Also he has only recently been able to keep a job for 6 months, usually within the last five years of us being together, he has had about 4 or 5 jobs that lasted anywhere from a week to two months. Is there anything that can be done, I know I can't provide for this precious baby right now and I need advice. Thank you.Answer Question
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