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Love is not the end all, cure all!

Too many people use love as an excuse! But, I love him or but, I know he loves me. News flash, you can and should walk away from someone you love or who loves you if it is not a healthy environment for one or both of you to be in! I understand following your heart but damn, we have brains and should use them! Just sayin!

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hemanclub

Asked by hemanclub at 3:42 PM on Nov. 15, 2013 in General Parenting

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  • You've just been LEARNED!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:44 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • Thanks herman.

    You can pass along this video from my friend's sister after her death. She is explaining to the Women's Safe House how to see the early warning signs, etc...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93qrMaohFrI&feature=share
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 3:44 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • What insightful advice for the GENERAL PARENTING section
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 3:46 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • Love actually MAY be the end all, cure all, but the problem is that people get confused about what love is. Many times the content of what's being called love in those "but, I love him/but, I know he loves me" situations fits the profile of dysfunctional need, emotional enmeshment, codependence.
    girlwithC

    Answer by girlwithC at 3:51 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • Welcome to Cafe Mom, stick around long enough and you might find that not everyone does have a brain, LOL!
    Is your SN from the Little Rascals, hemanwomanhaterclub? Odd right?
    2kids2dogs2cats

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 3:59 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • Hmmm well I'm not crazy. He-man Woman Hater is an Extreme song. I knew I wasn't going crazy when that song popped into my head.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:29 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • Like I say.. Love has nothing to do with it.
    I loved the hell out of my Ex. But he beat the crap out of me all the time. Left him.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 7:23 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

  • fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:42 PM on Nov. 15, 2013

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