For the past 16 yrs. my dh and our 2 kids and his 2 adults kids (my sk's) have been celebrating the holiday's just us 6.
Well my ss19 has a girlfriend of 11 months and wants to bring his gf to celebrate the holidays with us. My sd21 says she really doesn't want her to come bc she already sees enough of her at her mom's house (my sk's live with their mom) and the gf stays there most of the time.
Our kids heard about it and they too want it to be just us 6.
But my dh & I DO NOT have the heart to tell my ss not bring his gf, he has falling head over heels with this girl, we just don't see this going too far (I hope we are wrong) but this girl is going places (scholarships) and such then going to college. I just pray he is well prepared.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Nov. 23, 2013 in Adult Children (18+)
What would you do if it was sd21's boyfriend? Would you invite him? Would she want a boyfriend to be invited? If so, then I would invite the girlfriend. Personally, I would go ahead and invite the girlfriend anyways, because at some point your adult step kids will be dating someone who could potential be their future spouse.
Answer by JeremysMom at 11:04 PM on Nov. 23, 2013
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Answer by mrsmom110 at 5:53 AM on Nov. 24, 2013
She should absolutely be invited. You can't put yourselves in a bubble forever.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 8:36 AM on Nov. 24, 2013
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Answer by QuinnMae at 12:45 PM on Nov. 24, 2013
Next question overall
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