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my husband lied about not being married before and I found out he was now we are married I dnt know what to do?

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donette163

Asked by donette163 at 11:03 AM on Nov. 27, 2013 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • Did you talk to him about his dishonesty? What do you mean you don't know what to do? Maybe get some marriage counseling to help with effective communication.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 11:05 AM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • What was the situation? Do you know? Was in a married-in-Vegas sort of situation? Was he helping someone get a green card? Was the marriage annuled or did they have to divorce? There are a number of things that might make this shocking new information seem like less of a bad thing to you.
    AdensMama0308

    Answer by AdensMama0308 at 11:11 AM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • We need more information before we can really help you.

    Was he still married when you married him?
    Did he get a divorce, then marry you?

    Your answers to my questions will determine the advice you get here.
    Rosehawk

    Answer by Rosehawk at 11:20 AM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • well you are married now, you have 2 choices

    Stay
    Go
    luvmygrandgirl

    Answer by luvmygrandgirl at 11:23 AM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • Yeah, we need a lot more info. How did the previous marriage come about? How was it ended (annulment, divorce, death?)? How did you meet him, marry him? How long did you know each other, and how well, when you got married? What reason does he give for not telling you? How long have you been married? Are there children, from this marriage or the other?
    wendythewriter

    Answer by wendythewriter at 11:46 AM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • Did he get a divorce? How do you know he was married before? More info please, and just so you know you can type in the white box and respond to our questions.
    2kids2dogs2cats

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 12:08 PM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • Are you saying he's a bigamist?
    goldpandora

    Answer by goldpandora at 1:21 PM on Nov. 27, 2013

  • 3 hours ago, new member
    never returns

    surprised?
    nope
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 2:10 PM on Nov. 27, 2013

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