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I have everyweekend visitation to my son and he called me up asking me if he can stay by his father for this weekend would i get in trouble for leaving him their?

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Asked by savi148 at 11:27 AM on Nov. 29, 2013 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • Is it alright with his father if he stays there? I think to allow your child his request once in a while is fine, as long as it is okay with the other parent. If it becomes a habit then he could go back to court saying you never exercise your visitation. Allowing it once is fine though.

    Btw, 15 if anyone is wondering.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 11:54 AM on Nov. 29, 2013

  • Why don't you have custody of your children?

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:55 AM on Nov. 29, 2013

  • Its a long story but it will change very soon

    Comment by savi148 (original poster) at 2:34 PM on Nov. 29, 2013

  • Thank u for the advice it really helps

    Comment by savi148 (original poster) at 2:35 PM on Nov. 29, 2013

  • If you both agree on it, its OK. Not too often. That looks bad like one parent doesn't want to see him. Its best to follow court orders as much as possible because even little things can come back to bite you in the butt.

    Answer by jenny3344 at 10:54 AM on Dec. 4, 2013

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