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Too soon can i die?

ok things have been crazy for the last month! about two weeks ago my little girl passed away she was 5 1/2 months she died from s.i.d.s and when she was born I had a C-section she was my section child with my first I also had a C-section well I found out a week after my little girl passed away im am 6 weeks pregnant and it might be twins! my doctor thinks she heard two heart beats and im waiting for my ultrasound but I asked my doctor could I die she just told me to stay off my feet and keep changing the sub. and I think she didn't want to scare me? but scents I had a C-section 5 1/2 months ago and I done have 2 and im pregnant with my 3rd what's the chants I will die has any one else been throw this :(

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lilmom1993

Asked by lilmom1993 at 7:08 PM on Dec. 8, 2013 in Pregnancy

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  • I am so sorry about your little girl and your loss..but this question is best to ask your doctor.
    older

    Answer by older at 7:11 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • I know people grieve differently but this question is disturbing to me.

    I agree with Older; this is something you need to discuss with your doctor. At your next visit let her know your fears and make sure she listens to you
    Brawn

    Answer by Brawn at 7:14 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • I 'm sorry for your loss, but this really isn't the place to ask. Talk to your doctor, there's not much we can tell you.
    anime_mom619

    Answer by anime_mom619 at 7:19 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • it was not planned I feel like all this is a dream I cant sleep, eat or think straight I feel like he took my lil girl and is given me back another gift but its very hard it really does feel like a dream and two days after my little girl passed away so did my aunt so its been one thing after another
    lilmom1993

    Comment by lilmom1993 (original poster) at 7:20 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • she died 11/21/13 and she was born 06/06/13
    lilmom1993

    Comment by lilmom1993 (original poster) at 7:22 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • So how far along are you then?
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:26 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • I am 6 weeks even to day I found out last week end
    lilmom1993

    Comment by lilmom1993 (original poster) at 7:29 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • I'm soo sorry to hear about your baby..... Can you die from getting pregnant so soon after a c section? I'm not sure but if your doc thought you could die I'm sure she would suggest a medical abortion. I don't think a doc would risk your life on purpose bu you really need to talk to your doc or get a second opion
    rachel216

    Answer by rachel216 at 7:29 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • 9 days you heard 2 heartbeats? Through your abdomen,or on ultrasound?
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:30 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

  • By the time you deliver,it'll be over a year since your last C section
    I'm wondering why you think you'd die. The baby died OUTSIDE your body
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:33 PM on Dec. 8, 2013

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