My husband and I haven't spoken in 2 weeks. We are usually very close with one another,consider each other to be our best friends. But this is argument that I can't let go.
I do everything for my husband.. We both work full time, and we are both full time parents. But for some reason my husband thinks I must do everything for him.. such as cook, dish out his food and everything in between.
The argument happened, cause I asked him to make some tea for me. He turned around, and said, I guess, maybe next time I can make your coffee to? How about I dish out your food while I am at it... While his lecturing me his literally making the tea. I walked up, and took the pot and drained it down the dishwasher. I was not going to put up with that.. Why would he just lecture me, while making tea for me.. I do everything for my husband and I surely didn't deserve this.
So, please tell me if I am wrong, or your thoughts
Answer by Crafty26 at 12:41 AM on Dec. 11, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 1:02 AM on Dec. 11, 2013
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Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:46 AM on Dec. 11, 2013
Not talking and communicating is a self fulfilling prophesy. Where do you want your marriage to go? If you want a man that is willing to give and not because it's score keeping or obligation, but because he WANTS to then you need to tell him that.
Honestly, the silent treatment seems pretty dysfunctional. At this point I would suggest finding a marriage counselor to help you communicate effectively and in particular, CAREFULLY. It's easy to say things you don't mean when tempers flare, and while you can apologize for saying something hurtful, people always remember the way you made them feel. Learn how to communicate effectively and then see where things go.
Answer by QuinnMae at 10:53 AM on Dec. 11, 2013