I am not married but...I have been with my sons dad for 8 years....even people married only a couple years can lose the spark... Life gets montonous (sp?), especially with children!!!!!!
What you need to do is shake things up a bit....Go on a mini-vacation even if it is only a weekend...have date nights once a month...buy a sexy new bra....do something out of the ordinary once a week....let your imagination run WILD!!!!!
Let him know that what you want to bring the *Spark* back but never lay blame...it is no ones fault. Just remember what brought you two together and have fun!
at 12:04 AM on Feb. 20, 2009