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Is it normal?

to lose the spark in a marriage after just 4 years? how do you fix it?


Asked by Anonymous at 11:57 PM on Feb. 19, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I am not married but...I have been with my sons dad for 8 years....even people married only a couple years can lose the spark... Life gets montonous (sp?), especially with children!!!!!!

    What you need to do is shake things up a bit....Go on a mini-vacation even if it is only a weekend...have date nights once a a sexy new something out of the ordinary once a week....let your imagination run WILD!!!!!

    Let him know that what you want to bring the *Spark* back but never lay is no ones fault. Just remember what brought you two together and have fun!


    Answer by alexandersmom03 at 12:04 AM on Feb. 20, 2009

  • Yes, and you can get it back. Talk to you hubby and tell him your desires. He may be thinking the same thing. You out on some dates together. It could be a very exciting time for you.

    Answer by hopelessnance at 12:09 AM on Feb. 20, 2009