My boyfriend and I have been through some things since we started dating almost two years ago. The biggest thing is the long distance. We are about 600 miles apart. I want him to move here but he has two kids and he don't want to leave his kids. Which I totally understand. We want to be together but I can't just go move with him. Him and his sister have a place together. His kids live with the mother. We can probably get a place together but it may take a few months after I move up until we get our own place. Would it be smart for me to do that? Be would be the only one working until I get a job there. But we are both tired of the distance and I want is to be close. I just don't want to make a bad choice of going there before I find work and it may take 2 or 3 months before we can get our own. We've known each other since we were teenagers but I moved away so that is why we are in separate states. We reconnected 2 years ago and have been doing the long distance thingAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:14 PM on Dec. 11, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Nimue930 at 8:23 PM on Dec. 11, 2013
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 8:39 PM on Dec. 11, 2013
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 9:05 PM on Dec. 11, 2013
Do you have a child? If so, does their other parent have anything to say about your move?
Honestly, I wouldn't move for someone unless I had a commitment. Moving one of the most stressful things we all go through. Without having a job, it could take a huge toll on your relationship. Is there any way for you to send resumes or apply for jobs where he is and try to find something to start there shortly after moving? That's what I would prefer if it were me.
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:25 PM on Dec. 11, 2013