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My 17 year old son threw a tantrum when I was having sex with my boyfriend. What do I do?

I'm a 55 year old divorced mom

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laurenlerner10

Asked by laurenlerner10 at 9:25 PM on Dec. 18, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • He came home when he was not supposed to be home and I was in my bed room. He apparently heard us
    laurenlerner10

    Comment by laurenlerner10 (original poster) at 9:30 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • You learn to close the damn door. I don't blame him for being upset.
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 9:34 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • Well, you let him cool down and then you tell him you are sorry he overheard something that made him feel awkward, but that you are an adult who has a private life.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 9:40 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • I understand he is uncomfortable but I can't let him dictate my life
    laurenlerner10

    Comment by laurenlerner10 (original poster) at 9:44 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • If you say he's jealous,I'm going to scream
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:52 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • Jesus. You learn to fuck your goddamned boyfriend when you know damned good and well he won't come home. You also tone it down. Jesus H Christ, how the hell would you feel if you were him? It's bad enough to know your parents have sex. It's worse for a kid when your mom is fucking someone that's not his dad. Have a little understanding about what he's thinking.
    anime_mom619

    Answer by anime_mom619 at 9:56 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • I am looking for supporting and helpful comments. I give my son a lot. He could be respectful
    laurenlerner10

    Comment by laurenlerner10 (original poster) at 10:00 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • Simple, Lock the door and turn the radio on:)
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 10:16 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • Whatever....
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:28 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

  • Good grief!
    DJDNY

    Answer by DJDNY at 10:30 PM on Dec. 18, 2013

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