I have absolutely no one to talk to about this. I have no family, or friends. I figured maybe I can get some kind of thought or advice on cafemom durning this tough time for me.
I am a 22 year old girl with a 3years old son. I left my sons dad because all we did was fight. I met a new guy, and quickly fell for him. We were friends for two months, and it just felt like I've known him forever. The chemistry is amazing! All we do is laugh, and have a great Time. I can honestly say I never met someone like him. He's great with my son too! I never loved my sons dad like I love him. We been together for 2 years now.
When he was 23 he got arrested for possession of weed. Then in 2009 he got into a fight with his ex wife's boyfriend, so he got arrested for family violence for 2 months. That was a felony charge. I looked past all that though. I figured, he's a great guy.... That was all before me. Hopefully he's changed!!
5 months ago he got caught with some friends , and they had Xanax on them. They charged him in two different county's. Felony! They also caught him selling downloaded movies, felony. Right now he's in jail. Don't know when he will be home. Yet!
He writes me letters everyday reassuring me he's a changed man, a man of god, Etc. He promise us a great life, and to make me his wife when he comes home.
This man has a good heart, just makes very stupid choices! sometimes I feel like it's my fault. What would yin ladies do?
My heart is torn!
I come here for advice . Not to be bashed. I just seriously need some genuine Advice. Please.
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