so my 3 & 5 year olds spent Christmas with their dad as per the court agreement. they were there from Sunday-Wednesday at noon.
there are 3 adults living in my ex's mom's house, his mom, him, and his sister. so there are 3 adults there.
then tell my why my 3 year old came home reeking of urine?
ex MIL put the two of them and her other 6 yr old granddaughter (ex SIL's daughter) in matching pajamas on Xmas Eve and they slept in them. i know this because my 3 year old has been daytime potty trained since she was 2, and she'll be 4 in January. however, she wets the bed every night, and this is something that they ARE aware of.
so she went all night, all Christmas morning (around several adults, grandmas, uncles, aunts, etc) and NOBODY smelled the pee but i could smell it as soon as i opened ex mil's car door when she brought them home? i know she sat on someone's lap, gave hugs, etc. SOMEBODY had to fucking smell it so why did my baby have to walk around in piss soaked clothes? by the time they were brought home at noon it was obviously dry and had an even stronger odor.
i didn't say anything because i just got them back and was ready to do my Christmas with them, and i didn't really know for sure until i got them out of the pajamas and into the dresses i had for them. and what would saying anything have accomplished anyway? it was already done and over with and i KNOW somebody had to know about it. when my niece was a toddler she would walk around in diapers sagging down to her knees! they're so lazy!
but what bothers me even more is that my 3 year old probably peed in her bed over there Sunday night already and probably had to sleep in the same sheets until Tuesday night! she pees EVERY night, doesn't matter what you do or don't do it's a hereditary thing that she has to grow out of. here at home i just deal with the laundry because she hates wearing a pull up. but they obviously don't put pull ups on her....
i should probably record this shouldn't i? it has to be some form of neglect. normally they only spend 1 night every other weekend over there (suppose to be 3 nights but they only want them 1) but come spring break and summer they'll have to spend weeks at a time over there...
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